Saturday, December 19, 2009

I'm quite picky.

When it comes to my friends, not everyone can make the cut. There are a lot of people out here that you just cannot trust and they are steady trying to be your friend and get in your business.

I've fallen for this before but never again. A real friend doesn't back stab you or do something hella trife to you just because they are mad. If a real friend has a problem then they come to YOU and talk to YOU about it ad you both resolve the issue. A real friend doesn't tell everyone BUT YOU that they are mad at YOU, and never reach out to resolve the conflict. That's just petty and unnecessary.

I am lucky enough to have my handful of friends that I can trust with everything in the world. The friends that I know have my back when I'm really in need, and the one's that know virtually everything about, past, present and future.

I also have those friends that aren't my best friends, but I still consider them to be the friends I can go to if I need something, and the friends that I hang out with on a regular basis. Not everyone can be my bestfriend... there's only a select few of those.

The many circles of friends that I have keep me rounded and diverse. I don't like to hang out with the same people over and over and over again, because eventually it gets boring and I've done everything with these people. I like to meet new people and check out new spots and what not. This doesn't mean that these new people I'm meeting are about to be my new bestfriends, but I could always use a few more acquaintances, nothing wrong with that, right? I mean, fun is fun, and I like to have fun. Point Blank.

I have my bestfriends, my really good friends, my friends I say hi to at school, and people that I know from being out. Unless I have chilled with you more than 10 times, you can't really be my GOOD friend, but you could very well be someone that I know and have fun with easily. And even if I have hung out with you more than 10 times, if we have never had a convo that didn't result in the consumption of alcohol or weed, it doesn't count. lol

I hate it when people try to bribe me into hanging out with them with weed or alcohol, like... You don't have to get me fucked up just to hang out with me. I can hang out when I'm sober, it's okay. lol There is nothing wrong with being sober, but there IS something wrong with me drunk or high ALLLL the time. Get your life together, it's not that crucial. lol

I love my besties, my friends, my acquaintances, and everyone else that I know as well. We'll see how good of a friend I am to you when xmas comes around. teehee

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