Friday, May 16, 2008

What a Mistake.


I will be the first to say that I love boys. I have always thought boys were cute and I have always been a big flirt. I like hanging out with boys, and i like the attention that I get from them. Now, I am not saying that I think I am the cream of the crop and every guy will want to talk to me, but I surely do not think that I am ugly. I am very capable of getting a boys attention, and at one point in my life, that was the only thing I was worried about. I also have a lot of history with boys. I have an older brother and a lot of guy friends of all ages.
Now, having said that, I am not a stupid girl. You boys are stupid. As I stated above, I have a lot of guy friends that simply see me as their "little sister" or bestfriend. So, it is common that I will be with my guy friends and they talk about girls around me. I know the game, and i catch onto it quick. So when guys come at me with the same game I quickly brush them off because they have nothing more to offer than a few sweet words before they try and get me into bed with them. This game plan never works guys. Take a little more time to get to know the girl before you try and get in her pants. You never know what this girl may have while you are sitting next to her plotting your next move to get her to drop her panties. It really only makes you look stupid and way to horny for your own good. It is usually easy for me to spot game at first glance, probably because I got used to the game the boys brought at me from my home town in Rowlett, Texas. And when i came to college, I was able to spot similar game that dudes brought from all over the nation that attended my college or a college close to my campus. However, there were a few instances that it took a little longer to catch them in their "oh so slick" attempt to get in my drawls. "selling candy all up in my ear" one day, and trying to get me into your room to "chill" the next, is not the smartest way to go if you are trying to get to know a girl.. Well, unless you are not really trying to get to know "her", but her underwear on the floor. Something else boys should think about is, myspace and facebook will get you into a lot of trouble with girls. Point blank. If you are attempting to talk to a girl, regardless if you want her goodies or not, do not lie about anything that you tell the truth about on the internet. Do not tell this girl that you are single, but your profile pic is of you and your girlfriend kissing.. AND THEN ADD THE NEW CHICK like nothing is wrong. Really think about these things as you boys are trying to be little pimps striving for more girls to add to the list.
Having said this, I seemed to have made a mistake similar to this, or really, it is his mistake. Frankly, I do not mind putting certain aspects of my business on the internet if I feel that it really needs to be said, or if I believe that it will potentially help the person reading it. So I will continue. I met a boy, and of course he was cute lol. We hung out several times before school was out, and NO, he definitely did not get any of my goodies, simply because I do not open my legs for every man that crosses the street. But I will say that I did like this boy. I sensed no game being spit at me, which kept me a around "that" much longer. So now that school is out, I obviously am not able to see him anymore until August, but that is not that crucial because I just met him and what not. But I decided to add him on facebook just to keep in touch besides calling or texting. As I was viewing his page today, of course I checked out his pictures first. Everything was alright at first, just regular pictures, and then I clicked to see the next one, and he is in a picture with a girl. I thought nothing of it until I went through about 7584735734 more pictures with this same girl, that she had posted. She seemed to have a whole album just for them too, all close and touchy, even kissing.. So I put two and two together and came to the conclusion that they were together. I tried to give him the benefit of the doubt and think that maybe these were just old pictures from a long time ago, and then I looked at when she had uploaded these pictures. The were posted a mere 2 weeks before we had met. Now, I must tell you that I met him one day, and started hanging out with him, no lie, the next day. So I was not convinced that one day she posted the pictures with comments like "cutest couple in the AUC" and in a mere 14 days, was broken up with her with no words exchanged before he started looking for another girl. So I began to think and came to yet another conclusion that this boy is probably still talking to his girlfriend or ex-girlfriend while he was pursuing myself. This situation should not only be awkward for him, but for myself as well. I am not the type to want to break up a happy home, so at the moment I feel as though I have come inbetween whatever relationship they have. But just as bad as I feel, this boy should feel dumb that he has been caught by facebook of all things.
So I urge all boys, if you are going to come at any female with game, come correct with it. Have your game set like no one elses, because I have seen many boys with the exact same game that never works! Make yourself unique if you believe that your calling in life is to get girls, get girls, get girls. Have your game so tight that no one can catch you in anything you do not want to be caught it, it only causes more drama and gossip. Which is just one more thing you have to worry about in between getting girls. getting girls. getting girls. I am aware that this blog is WAY longer than expected, but when I have something to say, I always want to make sure that I get my point across to everyone who reads this.

HAVE A GREAT DAY AND DO NOT GET CAUGHT YOU DUMBASS LAMES!
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3 comments:

JUICEBMB said...

Ms.BMB
LMAO...this blog is 2 funny...sounds like u need a REAL nigga in ur life...

Bianca Anne said...

...i just wanna know who this nigga is. thats all.

PhresxhHeir...Jacoby.Jerome said...

...real tlk: not all guys r like tht...